Okay I know this is sound so sad and lonely with little bit of childish.. It just I am bored and lonely. Like I trade anything if I can get myself a woman of my life. I can read book with someone. I'm envy those old movies where parents read before go to sleep. I like that idea.
Sorry bit of outburst.
Long story short, last time I dated someone it was back in highschool. It was 10 years ago. And I don't call it as "LOVE". Now I want to find myself a woman..
I am not saying I am very handsome guy. At least when it comes to looks. I am good looking. It just aside from work I don't know what to talk about with other woman. I don't have any anxiety it just what else I can talk about? I can't randomly talk about what's your fav flower or something. I NEED to improve my way of thought when talking to woman. It can't be boring. GOOOOD MORNING! What are you doing? Have you lunch yet? Do you dinner yet? Okay Goodnight. That's IT!
I need a book. If you guys got advice idk if this allowed but I am opened to any opinion.
by LineusCorn
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Forgot to add I ghosted after that so yeah.
You may benefit from *How to Win Friends and Influence People* which has a lot of advice along those lines.
The main take away I had from it was to try to cultivate being genuinely interested in the person you’re talking to. Try to learn about them, and even if the topic isn’t something you share a natural interest in yourself, try to learn why they find it interesting.
People like to feel special and heard/seen. So if you are truly interested in a person, they’re likely to feel good about talking to you and being with you.
The more interests you have yourself, the more topics you’ll be prepared to discuss as well though of course. The other person is likely to want to know about you at some point as well, if you’re going to develop a relationship at least. If you’re just at a party together they may be content to have the conversation center around themselves.