So I’m a guy who’s been on a single date in my 29 years of existing. And I generally don’t know how to keep conversations going. No, I’m not completely incompetent and can talk to my coworkers and joke and stuff like that. But I will eventually run out of things to talk about and things will become awkward. This is something I would like to change this year. I want to be better at making conversation, possibly even make friends (currently don’t have any).
Going with this, I would also like to know generally how to talk to women when on a date. Things like what we should talk about, how I should dress, how to make her laugh, maybe even how to playfully flirt in a way that doesn’t come across as creepy and instead makes her feel seen and appreciated. Stuff like that
Anything y’all can recommend I’ll look into.
by Matilda_Mother_67
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Fear of Flying, by Erica Jong, is a classic… tells it like it is. You have to be able to figure out the subtext yourself, so just for starters: the author was a very attractive woman, and didn’t say anything in her book about THAT. But her view of the problems women have with men is very much a beautiful-girl list of problems. Not a bad place to start, though…