Something inbetween 48 laws of power and never split the difference – something that discusses *When* to use certain tools and what the difference is between power and negotiation.

Trump blatantly says he wants Greenland. Hate him or love him (many of us in the former) this is a power move. It has nothing to do with negotiation. He's not trying to work some deal out, it's pure power.

I'm not trying to take over Greenland, but I've found myself in situations at my work "negotiating" with people I very much should be "telling" what to do. I.e. – I'm a softy and I want to get better at knowing when I should be using power dynamics, or when I should be negotiating.

I never want to be in a position (metaphorically speaking) where my country is getting invaded by Russia and I think the best answer is to say "well what if I give you half of my country, is that fair?"