So I'm a Demi-sexual person, bordering on ace. It's not something I usually label myself as because labels never matter much to me. But it helps for context because I do tend to intellectualize everything.
Anyways, I've started dating someone that I can surprisingly see something more with. However, I've never dated anyone long enough or really cared to have sex before because it really doesn't matter to me. However, my partner enjoys being physical with me and I'd rather learn with him than with any other hook-up culture enthusiast.
That said, he is lightly versed in the "how-to" with minimal experience. And he does love to give and I'd like to not be the only receiver. With his little experience, I can't really ask the best way to go about things and I figured I'd do the classic research route. Which brings me to my question.
Does anyone have any good book suggestions on pleasing their man? Just sex books in general would be helpful but I'd rather they focus on the man's pleasure. If you're able to help, it would be much appreciated 👍
by TAA_HereNow
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I don’t know how you gender identify, but Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski is very good. It’s geared more towards women, but not exclusively. It has lots of good information to help figure out sexual compatibility, love languages, and what each person desires in a sexual relationship.