I’d like to try an approach with my partner
We are separated for a few months now.
We have different attachment styles –
We are both open to this and counseling
But we live apart in different states due to work and school and want to do some reconnecting over summer before being in person again for n the fall.
Probably more therapy based, healing, improving by communication.
Any ideas that helped your relationship
We both have the love, but we both also struggled with poor conflict resolution (I shut down, or leave… he has anxiety and so it’s a weird push pull between us)
We are both sober but previously struggled with turning to alcohol to manage issues (poorly I might add)
Both are Christian
I have a child from before, he does not have kids
Never married either of us
Looking to see if we can salvage what is a great passionate connection by learning how to communicate and move through some of our issues alone/ together
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