I have been trying to find a good book, but they always get on my nerves.

I have been trying to find a good book, but they always get on my nerves. I was hoping I could find some good recommendations here.
This is a list of what I like and what I don’t like. I would be very grateful if someone could recommend books that match my preferences.

What I like:

1. Female protagonist
2. A “power-up” journey
3. An OP FMC, preferably not OP from the start
4. Morally grey or dark FMC
5. Romance is not a major part of the story, or no romance at all
6. Highly ambitious
7. Completely unhinged fmc (psycopath, murder, it's optional)

What I don’t like:

1. She hates her power or wants to be “normal”
2. She has no ambition
3. She cares too much about romance or family
4. She always puts others above herself
5. She gets submissive in relationships (or during sex)
6. The MMC is more powerful than her (please do not recommend these)
7. The MMC bullies her and the FMC never takes revenge or just accepts him (e.g., Cruel Prince)
8. She loses her power at the end

If there is anything triggering in the book, a warning would be appreciated.