Self help book.

Okay gang i need myself some new literature. Im sick of being socially anxious and not good at talking to people. Some people just have a way of getting people that they just met to like them and im looking for a good psychology/self help book that can help me with that. I wanna be more outgoing and better at communicating with new people. Better at talking to girls. Better at making friends and have meaningful conversations that don't just fizzle out and turn awkward. Any suggestions would be immensely appreciated