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    Hi! I’m looking for recommendations based on books that made me feel profoundly seen.

    What I connect to most is depth of feeling and connection, and stories that are honest about trauma… especially the way early wounds and love echo throughout adult life.

    Some books I’ve really loved:

    • The Secret History – obsession, beauty, intellect, and the slow unraveling of conscience
    • The Goldfinch – grief, art, fate, and surviving beauty and loss; an incredibly honest portrayal of trauma and its long-term effects
    • Harry Potter – especially the later books: loyalty, self-sacrifice, moral complexity, and chosen family
    • Wuthering Heights – wild emotion, darkness, obsession, elemental love, and generational trauma
    • The Left Hand of Darkness – identity, devotion, loyalty, and quiet moral courage

    I’m especially drawn to:

    • Deep emotional bonds and intense inner lives
    • Generational patterns, devotion, obsession, and moral cost
    • The idea of pure love and self-sacrifice
    • Beautiful, serious prose over fast pacing or plot-driven stories

    Would love to hear what you’d recommend. thank you 🖤

    by SafetyLeast7443

    10 Comments

    1. Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver – identity, circumstances vs choice, relationships

      Babel by RF Kuang – fantasy, chosen family, morality

      The Immortalists by Chloe Benjamin – magical realism, fate vs choice, character studies

      The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai – chosen family, finding self, historical fiction

    2. Beartown by Fredrik Backman

      The Berry Pickers by Amanda Peters

      ETA: The Poisonwood Bible or Demon Copperhead both by Barbara Kingsolver

    3. fail_whale_fan_mail on

      Try:

      Written on the Body by Jeannette Winterson

      God of Small Things by Roy

      Long Live the Post Horn by Hjorth

      The Lover by Duras

      The Waiting Years by Fumiko Enchi

      Hangsaman by Shirley Jackson

      Would love to know if you end up enjoying any of these!

    4. AyeTheresTheCatch on

      *Life After Life*, by Kate Atkinson

      *The Sentence*, by Louise Erdrich

      *The Son of the House*, by Cheluchi Onyemelukwe-Onuobia

      *In Winter I Get Up At Night*, by Jane Urquhart

      *Greenwood*, by Michael Christie

      *Demon Copperhead*, by Barbara Kingsolver

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