Gender-nonconforming male characters

Howdy! I'm looking for novels that have gender-nonconforming male characters – feminine men, men in traditionally female roles, genderfluid characters that significantly align with masculinity, etc. I love sci-fi and historical fiction, but I would give just about any genre a shot.

Dealbreakers:

• If the gender-nonconforming male character dies
• If he's a joke or token side character with no development (that means no catty gay best friends in straight women's stories)
• If he's part of a romance with a gender-conforming woman
• If he becomes gender-normative over the course of his arc
• If the character is on the trans male/masculine spectrum AND the narrative is mostly focused on his transition, dysphoria, or experiences with transphobia; OR if his trans status/sex assigned at birth is treated as some kind of "innate femininity" and the reason for his nonconformity. If he's just trans and it's not a big deal, that's fine!

Bonus points:

• If the gender-nonconforming male character is the protagonist
• If he is an empath, magic user, spirit worker, man of the cloth, etc etc. His vocation is somewhere on the emotional/relational or mystical side of things.
• If he's not sexually/romantically submissive
• If it's available as an audiobook!

For clarity, I am not looking for:

• Nonbinary characters who do not align with masculinity, or who align with female and male identity equally (fine if they're in the book! But this is not what I'm asking about)
• Transgender women (again, fine if they're in the book! But not what I'm looking for)

If the character faces a lot of prejudice because of his nonconformity, that's fine, but I'd appreciate a heads up!

I'll happily take recommendations for indie or amateur fiction as well. Some recent favorite authors include Sarah Gailey, Ann Leckie, and Katherine Addison. Thanks a bunch!