Romance books for a romance hater?

I'm not like a super hater, but I generally have a hard time enjoying romance stories. Some of my biggest pet peeves are one or both characters being instantly attracted and/or obsessed with the other, and stockholm syndrome stories, so help me avoid that if you can.

I'm looking for something to feel good. I'm a big comedy sucker, so I'll probably love it if it's full of ridiculous situations, so maybe an enemies to lovers? I do enjoy that trope when it's for funsies

I also love stories where characters learn to heal their trauma and/or bad habits together.

If you got any recomendations please hit me!