February 2026
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    Hi!
    I'd like to read stuff that explores with the experience of not returning/rejecting someone else's feelings.

    I'd prefer non-fiction, but fiction is good too as long as it doesn't end with reciprocated feelings.

    requirements:
    – the topic of unreciprocated romantic feelings must be the main focus
    – some intellectual exploration of the phenomenon, I'm not (primarily) looking for something for emotional wallowing
    – the 'lover' is a good friend or similar, not a stranger or an acquaintance
    – both parties in the situation characterised with empathy

    related concepts i also want to explore:
    – being idealised/objectified
    – being treated as a damsel in distress
    – being seen as a manic pixie dream girl

    would be a plus, but isn't a must:
    – female pov
    – focus on gender dynamics
    – friends with benefits where one catches feelings and the other doesn't

    Thanks in advance, i hope this isn't too specific a request lol!

    (Actually, I'd be up for other kinds of media about this too – like films, shows or podcasts or whatever– as long as it meets the requirements above, but i guess that's off topic here hehe)

    by gaybroccoli97

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