Books about decentering men from self work. Any genres are welcome!

I’m looking for book recommendations on unlearning male validation or the male gaze as a woman.

Not just general feminism theory (unless you think it’s really important) specifically books that deal with:

– decentering men

– losing the need to be attractive or desirable

– unlearning the habit of seeking male approval

I’m open to any genre really. Could be essays, theory, fiction, non-fiction, personal narratives. I’d love any recommendation that fits the bill (: