Watching reels and shorts here and there I stumbled upon the concept of being interested in a person, let’s say romantically, and therefore engaging with him/her not cause you actually like the person for who he/she is but rather for what you will obtain from said person.. and not strictly speaking about sex for example, but in a more broad spectrum of being liked, being in a relationship, the situations, the emotions etc etc..
I kind of see myself in that description, not in a bad / intentional way but yeah, still..
Specifically one guy says its a narcissistic trait, which i don’t know if its true but anyway.. Any book suggestion specific on the topic..? Self help, attachment style, spiritual, psychological..
Thanks..
by juoly