Hi there,
I'm looking for books about cultivating your own life outside of a romantic partner. Becoming self sufficient, not codependent romantically, self trust, self reliant.
I really struggle with wanting to always be close to a partner and live my life surrounding them and their friends and community and hobbies.
I'm an only child and struggle being alone (and struggle reaching out to friends) . I'm seeking a book on cultivating a secure attachment with myself, being okay being alone.
If you've read Polysecure (chapter 9 specifically) I'm looking for a book that expands on that
by gryphiti2