Recently I have noticed in myself that a lot of my behaviours are a result of some unconscious striving to be a "good boy". I'm a 38 year old man and it doesn't seem like the appropriate "program" to have running my life. I have done a lot of deep work in various things, but I notice that this drive is quite persistent. I would love any book (or even other resources if appropriate) recommendations which address this idea of being good little boys and girls.
by tom_moves