I've read some books on attachment theory but they seem reductionist. I was wondering if somebody could suggest me books that would help me understand where my 'type' comes from and if it's healthy.
To give you an idea, I'm left wondering, for example, if being attracted to Middle Eastern guys might have something to do with them being homophobic to me in childhood…. whether being attracted to brown, kind-eyed guys has to do with my only male friend who was accepting of me having these.
Thanks ❤️❤️❤️
by AxelLemaire