Fantasy books with dark themes but are still SFW

I'm weird, I HATE "naughty" scenes in books. I don't mind swearing, I don't mind blood, I don't mind gore. S*x is the only R-rated thing that makes me uncomfortable on a visceral level. I don't mind if characters do it, naturally, but I don't want details. They fucked, that's all I need or want to know. Books where they just kiss and leave it at that (or books without romance) are even better. I can find this type of book, but not in dark fantasy for some reason. Perhaps yalls can help me.

TL;DR: I love fantasy but I can't seem to find recent fantasy books that have darker themes without involving naughty stuff. Help.