I’m 21yo f and am going through a tad crisis about my relationship with men and why, in the past 5 years, have i only had 6 months of being truly alone (no boyfriends or fwb)
I’m in search of a book (non-fiction) that can help me understand why i desire to be with someone so often, and how to learn to like being alone. I don’t want to be alone forever, but i do need to get away bc wtf have i been doing.
Any perspective on relationships and sex and hookups and why women act the way we act towards men and feel such a need to feel wanted. How do i stop my perpetual search for men and learn to be content? Non-negotiable: needs to have a non-male author.
I would appreciate any ideas that come to mind!
by flyonthewall1103
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I don’t have a specific book in mind but I wanted to share “decentering men” as a possible search term that might be helpful to you in the meantime until you get some book recs
You might find *On My Own:
The Art of Being a Woman Alone* by Florence Falk helpful.