I (27F) have been struggling a lot recently with what my identity and true personality are. I feel like I am not fully vulnerable with the people in my life, I have a lot of anxiety regarding my self-esteem (comparing myself to my current boyfriend's ex-fiancee, although I we are in an entirely healthy and happy relationship- classic stuff), etc. I have always felt like I need to perform, I feel like I take on aspects of other people's personalities instead of being myself in an effort to find myself. I know the "finding yourself" topic has been beaten to death all over Reddit, but does this blurb make any specific books come to mind? thank you!
by zephpens