I know these two series might not seem very similar, so here is what I like about them:
Female amateur sleuths just living their lives in a small community, but get roped into investigating. Age range maybe 20-50?
Main focus is a murder mystery/whodunnit.
No crimes which won't let me sleep at night. Either not too graphical or fantasy genre.
A strong romantic subplot which doesn't resolve too soon. Plus is a slow burn romance over multiple books. Changing romantic interests is okay.
Interesting, quirky, recurring side-characters, maybe a cozy village vibe.
by Askaris