I often day dream about being rich or being a ufc champ or owning a cool car or climbing the 7 summits or becoming very handsome, as a form of escapism.
My life sucks right now, as much as any other low wage worker living alone.
The main of point of those imaginary scenarios is me getting (special) attention and validation.
Im sure it's about external validation because those scenarios are mainly about other people reaction to the imaginary me.
The payoff per se.
I like reading nonfiction very much.
Reason i wanna read up on this is, at this point, it's more like maladaptive daydreaming.
I'd rather very much fix my automatic thoughts and think more about the objectives i gotta reach rather than the goal and payoff.
I very much would rather my spontaneous thoughts be about how i would slowly become a sought out skilled worker, or a business owner
than how im gonna spend my money IF im rich one day.
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