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    I’ve had 3 LTR but my most recent one of 4 years nearly destroyed me. I (31F) am having such a hard time two months later. I barely recognize myself.

    Need some self development, self help or even just novels that will get me out of this deep dark hole. I’m having a difficult time loving myself.

    Anything is appreciated.

    by nutellaabellaa

    6 Comments

    1. Iona Iverson’s Rules for Commuting

      You’ll just have so much faith in people and friendships. So wholesome.

    2. NearbyBrandyWineWay on

      I enjoyed Let’s Get Lost by Adi Alsaid— its characters are a bit younger (teen years) but it took me back to a time when anything felt possible.

    3. I’m a Christian but one of the best breakup books I ever read was “The Heart of the Buddha’s Teachings” by Thich Nhat Hanh. Truly a saving grace for me.

    4. For starters you could try both Fiona Gibson & Dawn O’Porter, their books have made me lol, it’s fiction..their patter is funny & books are lighthearted.
      I definitely think reading is the best escapism

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