I’m a male 34 and my father has never been a part of my life, recently my now wife found him through ancestry and I was thinking of making contact. To be honest I don’t know where to begin so I was wondering if anyone has any books that would help give examples or a story of reaching out. Thanks
by Chicken-in-a-basket
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I don’t have any recommendations for books but I was adopted and ended up looking for my birth mother a few years ago. I had a private investigator who specialized in adoption searches reach out first because I had no idea how she would react. If she didn’t want to meet/talk that would have been fine but I did have some questions I wanted to ask that the third party could have asked on my behalf. Took that worry off my shoulders.