For the record, nothing to do with traditional gender rolls/religion please.
Some additional topics for consideration:
I wasn’t really a great bf, and have made my share of mistakes as a fiance, and husband. I think I’ve turned out a good one, but it’s an insecurity of mine that I’m trying to work out through education.
If more detail is needed: My wife also has RA, which has impacted our lives and marriage tremendously. We’re good, and we’ve grown a lot together from it, but there’s always improvement to be made.
Both neurodivergent, both ADHD, though I’ve been considering getting tested for years to see if I’m ASD as well.
We don’t plan on children, just our fur babies, one of whom has stage 2 congestive heart failure, which has been rough on both of us emotionally as we know our time with him is going to be too short, he’s 9.
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