Books with female autistic main character?

I am looking for novels with a main character who is either autistic, autistic coded or both autistic and adhd.
Probably mostly set in the real world. Where they struggle with relationships. Examples of books I have liked are

We need to talk about Kevin.
Strange Pictures.
The list of suspicious things.
The Bee sting.
Young mungo
11/22/63.
All Fours.
Some crime fiction – by Michael Connelly, Val McDermid, Lee Child, Kate Atkinson

Thanks