Fantasy romance books for adults, what to read next?

Im finishing the acotar series atm, but i want to find something similar to it before i finish, to start reading straight after.

The problem is, im a bit fussy with adult romance. I get annoyed with love triangles , i hate seggs thats violent and border line grape and i really cant stand pathetic female leads who constantly do stupid things and need saving.

I love fantasy and sci-fi

Any suggestions??