This might be a bit of an unusual request, but I’m hoping some fellow book lovers might be able to help.
About a year ago I went through a pretty traumatic experience involving long-term cheating and since then I’ve had a really hard time consuming most media. Movies, shows, and even a lot of music have become difficult because domestic violence, relationship drama, cheating or “player” characters show up so often and can be really triggering for me.
The thing I miss the most though is reading. Books used to be my safe place and I’d really love to find that again.
The problem is that opening a random book feels scary right now unless I know it’s “safe”.
So I’m looking for book recommendations that avoid certain relationship themes but can still be engaging and beautiful.
Things I’m looking for:
• wholesome / hopeful stories
• adventure or coming-of-age
• friendship / found family
• cozy or dreamy vibes
• fantasy is okay
• romance is totally fine as long as the couple is respectful and healthy
• Christian themes are a bonus but not required
• series are great too!
Things that are really triggering for me:
• domestic violence
• cheating / infidelity
• love triangles
• “player” / womanizer characters
• toxic romantic dynamics
• relationship drama between the main couple
Things that are totally fine:
• adventure, danger, survival stories
• violence that isn’t domestic/relationship-related (e.g., war/battles like in LOTR)
• emotional or sad moments that aren’t about romantic betrayal
• kids/YA books or adult books with a gentle tone
A book I’ve enjoyed recently is Anne of Green Gables!
If anyone knows books that feel safe, kind, and hopeful, I’d be incredibly grateful. Thanks so much in advance!!
by Gloomy_Ad6168