Non-macho male POV erotica?

Hello, I'm kinda new to reading (as silly as that sounds) but want to explore it as a healthier alternative to porn/AI chat bots. It seems a lot of romance/sex books have male characters that are quite stereotypical macho, dominant, successful types and I don't really relate to that as a timid, geeky guy. Is there anything written from the perspective of just a normal, everyday man or a guy that's kinda timid and geeky too? Preferably something spicy with a dominant female but happy to try something else too. Thank you in advance!