Looking for books about women starting over and finding themselves that isn’t cheesy or boring

I need a book recommendation that feels like a warm hug after starting over.

Maybe the FMC is dealing with a breakup, career failure etc and has to run away and begin life again.

I’m tired of stuff that’s just depressing as I'm already not in too good of a place. So please, make it funny and not serious and boring. It can be emotional at times and make you want to cry but it still has to be positive and hopeful despite the situation the FMC is in.

The FMC must be a bit of a mess and make mistakes and she should feel like someone you want to be friends with.

If there's romance that would be perfect but but the focus is really on her starting her life again successfully.