I’m going through a very similar off and on dynamic with someone who I love very much and have hurt via the same socially anxious and avoidant behaviors. I relate far 2 much to Connell. I suppose I’m ruminating and have a narcissistic desire to feel seen and validated and not feel alone in my struggles.
Book recs don’t necessarily have to be a romance/couple dynamic but just anything you might recommend to someone who finds it very difficult to express themselves and connect their feelings. Someone who is struggling with isolation and being far too passive, and overall not knowing who they are or making sense of it all.
by RealisticCarpenter83
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I liked Talking at Night by Claire Daverley, which I read specifically because it was recommended for having a similar vibe to Normal People haha. I think it definitely fits well with your second paragraph. I read it while isolated with COVID, finished it in 3 days.
Also I don’t think it’s narcissistic to want to be seen and validated, I think that’s human! I read for this reason too ❤️