I’m probably going to get flack for this, but I need books on exploring my gender and sexuality

I'm probably Autigendered and, under that, gay and trans (though if I'm trans, I may technically not be gay; I'm not sure how it works).

I know Leslie Feinberg's a good writer.

Anyone else I should be aware of? I'm just starting out, I feel, though I've never felt like a man since I was little.

And I've always been queer, tbh, but I kinda swore off stuff like romance and all that.