Hello 👋🏻 my ex’s cheated on me so many times and I think I have ptsd because whenever my partner goes to the bathroom or the bedroom for so long and is super quiet I feel like something is going on even if his phone is right beside me. I had 1 ex that literally had sex with his aunty in the bathroom when our bedroom was right beside it, and I also had one that was French and literally had a whole other girlfriend who only spoke French and was with me and her at the same time and I don’t speak French so we both had no idea. Then my most recent ex tried so hard to cheat on me but couldn’t because the girls he tried with had partners or knew he had a girlfriend (which kinda hurt my confidence a bit because he tried so hard to cheat on me but nobody wanted him lol) but my partner now hasn’t really gave me a reason to although he did hide that he was talking to someone and went to visit her and explained to me that they just hung out and talked about me, and confirmed it through her on messenger, but it’s so hard to trust again after that happened and I really want to make this work. Does anyone have any suggestions on any books so I can get over these feelings?
by Rose_E_Williams
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Therapy, babe. No book is going to fix this for you.