Looking for bittersweet “coming-of-age / figuring out life” books. especially that lost in your 20s kinda

Hey everyone,

I’m in the mood for something a little melancholy. books that really capture that confusing, in-between phase of your 20s where nothing feels stable and you’re trying to figure out who you are.

I’m especially looking for:

• A strong coming-of-age or “finding your place” theme
• A bittersweet tone
• Characters who feel a bit lost, stuck, or directionless
• Romance is okay, but I’d prefer it not to be the main focus

Bonus points for:

• Introspective writing
• Messy life choices / realistic struggles
• That quiet, lingering emotional impact

I’m open to any genre (lit fic, contemporary, even light speculative if it fits the vibe)

What books gave you that “this hurts but in a good way” feeling about growing up?

Thanks 🙂