Looking for a book where men are kind

I know we are living in a sexist world where women are at a higher risk of receiving violence, rape, being objectived, etc. And often when I'm reading autobiographies or any kind of books horrible stuff happens to the women or even basic sexist stuff. This really affects me and has shaped my world view. I feel less secure around men. I would love to walk around more trusting, because not everyone is dangerous or an ass. So I'm looking for a book/books, plus points if they're based on real events/biographies/autobiographies, where men are kind, where it's not sexist, not patriarchal. I'm not looking for a book, in which the woman kicks the men's ass because he's an asshole sexist. There can be bad people in there but please no stereotypical things. Not looking for horror or thriller, but open for everything else. 🙂 Also fantasy books would be cool, since there's a lot of sexist stuff usually in them 🙃